It’s that time of year again. Gym memberships, throwing out
all the selection boxes and trying to perfect the task of writing 2019 instead
of 2018. A new year resolution is something that many people do come first of
January but what exactly is a new year resolution? According to Wikipedia, a New
Year’s resolution is a tradition, most common in the Western Hemisphere but
also found in the Eastern Hemisphere, in which a person resolves to change an
undesired trait or behavior, to accomplish a personal goal or otherwise improve
I have a few things I’d like to accomplish/change in 2019 so
without further ado, here are a few of my 2019 new year resolutions:
Become healthier – During Christmas my diet just
went out the window so I plan to go back on it for the new year
Exercise – Get my fitness routine back on track
Grow and post more on Instagram
Blog – To write more blog posts and engage more
on my social media platforms
Dating – I’m going to try and wait for the right
person to come along while in the meantime being more productive and keeping
busy by focusing on college and my blog.
An essential part of the lead up to Christmas is the showing of countless Christmas movies on TV. Whether it’s a hallmark movie, a Disney film such as Frozen (who can forget kids from all over the world belting out Let it Go) or a classic such as It’s a Wonderful Life. So if you’re looking for something to watch over this festive season, have a look at my favourite Christmas movies… In no particular order
How the Grinch stole Christmas(2000)
This movie is an adaptation of the children’s tale from Dr. Seuss. The green Grinch HATES Christmas with a passion and is determined to ruin it for all the citizens of Whoville.
Will Ferrell is brilliant taking on the role of Buddy the Elf in this festive comedy. Buddy has been raised with Elfs but when feels that he no longer fits in, Buddy goes to New York City in search of his biological father.
After the family rush to the airport for a family trip to Paris, Kevin McAllister is accidentally left behind. While he enjoys having the house to himself for a while, he later discovers that two thieves plan to rob the McAllister household and Kevin must to do what he can to protect it.
With their daughter Blair in another country, Luther and Nora Krank plan to go on a Caribbean cruise for the festive season but this doesn’t sit well with the residents on the street as they are determined to win a competition. The Kranks soon become social outcasts because of their lack of Christmas spirit.
The first collaboration between Tim Burton and Johnny Depp. An inventor assembles a synthetic youth named Edward but when the inventor dies Edward is fit with long , scissor like extremities. He is taken in by Peg Boggs but not long after he finds himself drawn to her daughter Kim who is unfortunately dating the neighbourhood bully.
When new resident Danny arrives in his neighbourhood his big dream is to light up his house so it can be seen from space. This idea doesn’t go well with Steve who declares a war of one – upmanship with Danny.
Let it gooooo, let it gooooo, . Ya that’s from this movie. When their kingdom becomes trapped in perpetual winter, fearless Anna joins forces with mountaineer Kristoff and his reindeer sidekick to find Anna’s sister, Snow Queen Elsa , and break her icy spell.
Divorced dad Scott has custody of his son Charlie on Christmas Eve. After he accidentally kills a man in a Santa suit, they are magically transported to the North Pole, where an elf explains that Scott must take Santa’s place before the next Christmas arrives. Scott thinks he’s dreaming, but over the next several months he gains weight and grows an inexplicably white beard. Businessman Scott’s life is about to completely change…
Don’t get me wrong, I love getting presents for Christmas but it’s not what Christmas is all about. For me, one of the best parts about Christmas is Christmas shopping for my family, picking out the perfect gift and then waiting to see their faces shine with happiness come Christmas Day.
Christmas time is about spending time with your family and friends. It’s about laughing together when the snow falls, having a snowball fight and making snow angels. At Christmas time, pictures don’t need to be taken as the memories of Christmas are cherished for life.
When Christmas comes around, magic enters every home, lovers kiss under mistletoe and holly wreaths are placed on front doors. However, the main thing that happens when Christmas comes around is I am reminded to be grateful. Grateful for my family, my home, my health. Christmas reminds me to be good to others, to think of those less fortunate than ourselves, to embrace the moment, to put the phones away for a while and to enjoy the magic of Christmas.
So you had to pick a name from a hat and get that person a present for under a €10 and they can’t know it’s you and now you dunno what to get them because you’ve hardly ever talked to them apart from that one time … look you get the point you’re stuck for a present.
So before you get all panicky here’s a list of a few things you could buy for your secret santa:
It’s the 1st of December and Christmas is officially just around the corner. Christmas is still my favourite time of year and if by some miracle it snows, it makes it all the more festive. We all know Christmas to be the time of year people give and receive presents but what is it actually all about?
Christmas day takes place every year on the 25th December and according to Wikipedia, Christmas is generally recognised as an annual festival commemorating the birth of Jesus Christ, observed primarily on December 25 as a religious and cultural celebration among billions of people around the world. It is generally celebrated by Christians and some non-Christians.
While religion is a significant part of Christmas, it is also seen as a cultural and commercial event. Many department stores such as John Lewis spend millions every year making the perfect Christmas advert. Shops such as Sainsbury’s and Tesco also advertise their festive products.
The cool thing about Christmas is that while it may be celebrating the same thing, different countries have their own way of marking the occasion. Here’s how Christmas is celebrated around the world…
Argentina – Houses are beautifully decorated with lights and wreaths of green, gold, red and white flowers. Red and white garlands are hung on the doors of houses. The main meal is eaten during the evening of Christmas Eve, often about 10pm or 11pm. Some popular dishes include roasted turkey, roasted pork (in northern Argentina, some people will have goat), stuffed tomatoes, salads and Christmas bread and puddings like ‘Pan Dulce’ and Panetone. At midnight, fireworks are set off. In Argentina, the main language spoken is Spanish (still called Castellano by Argentines), so Happy/Merry Christmas is ‘Feliz Navidad’.
Armenia – Some Armenians fast (don’t eat anything) in the week before Christmas. The Christmas Eve meal is called khetum ‘Խթում’. Santa Claus Gaghant Baba / Kaghand Papa traditionally comes on New Year’s Eve (December 31st) because Christmas Day itself is thought of as more of a religious holiday in Armenia. At the beginning of December, a big Christmas tree (Tonatsar) is put up in Republic Square in Yerevan, the capital of Armenia. Favorited and traditional Holiday foods in Armenia include Anooshaboor (Armenian Christmas Pudding), Khozee bood (glazed ham) and dried fruits.
Australia – Australians also decorate their houses with bunches of ‘Christmas Bush’, a native Australian tree with small green leaves and cream coloured flowers. In each State capital city there is a large Carols by Candlelight service. Famous Australian singers like John Farnham, Anthony Warlow, Niki Webster and many more help to sing the carols. These carol services, held in different cities, are broadcast on TV across Australia.
Austria – Christmas in Austria really starts around 4.00pm on Christmas Eve (‘Heilige Abend’) when the tree is lit for the first time and people come to sing carols around the tree. The most famous carol is Silent Night (‘Stille Nacht’), which was written in Austria in 1818. In Austria, St Nicholas is often accompanied by the Krampus, he is a big horned monster clothed in rags and carries chains. He’s meant to punish children who have been bad! Every year, Austria’s capital city, Vienna, holds a world famous classical music concert ‘NeuJahrsKonzert’ which takes place during the morning of New Year’s day.
China – In China, only about one percent of people are Christians. In China, Santa is known as ‘Sheng dan lao ren. People give apples on Christmas Eve because in Chinese Christmas Eve is called “Ping’an Ye” (平安夜), meaning peaceful or quiet evening, which has been translated from the carol ‘Silent Night’.
Croatia – In Croatia, preparations for Christmas start on 25th November which is St Catherine’s day. On St Nicholas’s Eve (5th), children clean their shoes/boots and leave them on the window. They hope that St Nicholas will leave them chocolates and small presents in their boot. There’s an old Croatian tradition that young men give their girlfriends a decorated apple at Christmas. The main Christmas Day is often turkey, goose or duck. A popular side dish is sarma (cabbage rolls filled with minced pork meat).
Czech Republic – Ježíšek ‘Little Jesus’ (the Czech version of Christkindl) brings presents during the Christmas Eve dinner and leaves them under the Christmas Tree. Czech children have their dinner in a different room from where the tree is located. When they hear the bell ring (usually after the children have finished eating their main meal but when they are still at the table), that means that Ježíšek had been and has left their presents under the tree. The presents are normally opened right after dinner.
Germany – Christmas Trees are very important in Germany. They were first used in Germany during the late Middle Ages. If there are young children in the house, the trees are usually secretly decorated by the mother of the family. Christmas Eve is the main day when Germans exchange presents with their families. Germany is well known for its Christmas Markets where all sorts of Christmas foods and decorations are sold.
Ireland – Christmas lasts from Christmas Eve to the feast of Epiphany on January 6th. The day after Christmas Day, St. Stephen’s Day (known as Boxing Day in the UK and some other countries), is also very important in Ireland. Like in the UK, football matches and horse racing meetings are traditionally held on St. Stephen’s Day. One very old tradition is the Wren Boys Procession that takes place on St. Stephen’s Day.
Italy – The city of Naples in Italy is world famous for its cribs and crib making. Naples is also the home to the largest crib scene in the world, which has over 600 objects on it. One old Italian custom is that children go out Carol singing and playing songs on shepherd’s pipes, wearing shepherds sandals and hats. On Christmas day ‘Babbo Natale’ (Santa Claus) might bring them some small gifts, but the main day for present giving is on Epiphany.
Poland – Christmas Eve is a very important and busy day in Poland. Traditionally it was a day of fasting and abstinence (not eating anything) and meat is not normally allowed to be eaten in any form. On the table there are 12 dishes – they are meant to give you good luck for the next 12 months. Carp is often the main dish of the meal.
Trinidad and Tobago – The radio stations play Trinidadian Christmas carols and songs as well as traditional and contemporary carols from the USA. The traditional Trinibagonian Christmas meal include apples and grapes, sorrel, ponche-de-creme (a version of egg nog), ham, turkey, homemade bread, ginger beer, pastelles (a version of tamales) and local wine. Trinidadian Christmas fruitcake is traditional and is eaten in most homes.
United Kingdom – The decorating of the tree is usually a family occasion, with everyone helping. Most villages, towns and cities are decorated with Christmas lights over Christmas. Often a famous person switches them on. Children write letters to Father Christmas/Santa listing their requests, but sometimes instead of putting them in the post, the letters are tossed into the fireplace. The draught carries the letters up the chimney and Father Christmas/Santa reads the smoke. Dessert is usually Christmas Cake.
So there’s just a few countries (couldn’t go through them all) and how they celebrate Christmas. If you feel I left anything out please comment below as I love learning about different cultures.
It is true that sometimes being single can make you feel fed up and lonely and dating the wrong people make you feel like you’re better off being single than with some jackass. But here’s the thing, while being single can be frustrating for some people, it doesn’t mean there’s anything wrong with you. Being single means that you’re strong and wise and you won’t settle for less than you deserve.
Being single also gives you time to focus on yourself and to iron out any issues you may have going on in your life. Besides if you’re not happy by yourself you won’t be happy with another person. Whether you’re happy on your own or waiting for love to find you, here’s a playlist of songs for single people to remind you to be confident within yourself.
I haven’t had to block many people in my life. I would always have a fairly good enough reason to block someone whether by phone number or on social media. The few people who I have blocked were quite similar and I guess this is my way of explaining why you (the people I’ve blocked) were blocked and how you can hopefully learn from it.
Dear all the boys I’ve blocked before,
I blocked you for a reason. I gave you a chance, I was friendly but you were out to gain attention, you were out to annoy someone. You asked for a video call at 2 in the morning and when I declined you kept on ringing. I had only spoken to you within five minutes. You were blocked.
You said that you loved me, that you have never met a woman like me. I was gullible and wasn’t listening to my conscience. You mentioned marriage time and time again. My health gradually deteriorated. All you did was lie. All you thought of was advantage. You didn’t care. But I did so you were blocked.
You didn’t even know me. You saw some selfies I put on snapchat. I was fully clothed but you asked was I a slut. You called me a bitch then proceeded to say I was a princess. You were just plain creepy. You were all once again blocked.
You. You were different. I actually met you in person. I thought you were different but you lied to me, time and time again. First about your height then you wanted me to change what I wore, how I dressed. You said it didn’t suit me. You disrespected women, including me. You insulted others several times and you didn’t even care. I called you out on the things you did but you said I was being selfish and arrogant.
I left but you decided to call me at 4, 5 and 6 in the morning even though you knew I had college at 7. Once, I was wrecked and I answered. You said you were sorry. You said you would make it up to me but you never did. I only knew you a little over 3 weeks and already you had shown your true colours. I blocked your phone number but you called using your friend’s phone.
I blocked you on Facebook but you messaged me using a different account. You sent several paragraphs. You wanted me to unblock your number but I knew if I did you would continue to try and control me and I would never escape your grasp. So I blocked you.
All of you wanted someone who you could use or try to manipulate. But I’m not a stupid girl. I knew you weren’t genuine, I choose to overlook it but eventually I could see through your lies.
When you block someone it’s usually because you don’t want to hear from them, you don’t want to listen to their lies, you want to move on and that’s what I’m doing. Moving on. Moving on from lies, disrespect and narcissism but most importantly I’m moving on from you.
I hope you take into account what I have mentioned. You can always change for the better, you can become a better person every day. You need to see how you treat others. So now you know why u’ve been blocked. Maybe you can learn from your actions or then again… maybe not.
For years my parents have been purchasing lottery tickets on a weekly basis. Have they ever won the lottery? No.(Well apart from this time they won a very small amount). But sometimes when we sit together checking our tickets, the question pops up . What if? What if we won the lottery? I don’t exactly know what they would do but here’s what I would do if I ever won the lottery…
Pay off any bills, loans etc
I couldn’t really enjoy anything knowing no matter how much money I have, if I don’t pay the bills I’ll have no house so I’d get all that sorted first.
Give some money to my parents
My family aren’t rich. Our definition of luxury is a comfortable house and a roof over our head. I have always been thought to be thankful for what I have. I would give money to them to pay off different things or to just go on a shopping spree for themselves.
Give money to charity
I would definitely hands down have to give some money to charity. I want to give back to people in need however I can and by donating I hope I could contribute to them living a better life.
Buy things for my dog
I’d love to buy him like little coats for the winter or hi-vis jackets.
I’d put some money into savings for the future.
And finally I would treat myself to a shopping spree.